New year, new stories..

Writing helps... But so does talking...

Over the years I have faced a number of challenges, some of which have made me stronger & some which have taught me a lesson. 

When I younger I used to think many people had similar experiences as me or know how to be in my position, but as I grew up I quickly realised that was nowhere near the truth... There's this wonderful quote that I associate with; 'before you judge me, step into my shoes and walk the life I'm living and if you get as far as I am, just maybe you will see how strong I really am.' Everyone has something they're dealing with, no one has a perfect life but I guess some people are good at hiding that... I used to be that person and I guess I still am. 

Yet, that is not who I want to be, I want to speak out, raise my voice & say exactly how I am feeling or what I'm dealing with... But exactly how do I do that? I get asked often how do I carry on whilst going through so much, my only answer; I don't let my medical conditons control my life... Or at least that used to be my answer, now I'm not sure. 

I want to start sharing my story on here, writting helps me a lot! I find it easier to write down everything I'm going through/feeling rather than talking, Sometimes I am able to do both, but mostly writting is my passion & I want to share my experience of everything I have

gone/been going through, in hopes that it helps someone out there! 😊

Book Review: In Conclusion, don't worry about it - Lauren Graham

In Conclusion, don't worry about it by Lauren Graham 

Summary

"If you're kicking yourself for not having accomplished all you should have by now, don't worry about it. Even without any 'big' accomplishments yet to your name, you are enough." 

In this expansion of the 2017 commencement speech she gave at her hometown Langley High. Lauren Graham, the beloved star of Gilmore Girls & parenthood reflects on growing up, pursuing your dreams, and living in the here and now. "Whatever path you choose, whatever career you decide to go afer, the important thing is that you keep finding joy in what you're doing, especially when the joy isn't find you" 

In her hilarious, relatable voice, Graham reminds us to be curious and compassionate, no  matter where life takes us or what we've yet to achieve. Grounded  & inspiring -  and illustrated throughout with drawings by Graham herself 0 here is a comforting road map to a happy life...

Reflection 

This was one the best books I have read in a while! Graham wit & inspirational stories is what I needed over the last few months. As a university student facing many struggles in life Graham's words are my comfort & a lot of what she shares has stuck with me. Few of my favourite quotes from her are; 

"If you're kicking yourself for not having accomplished all you should have by now, don't worry about it. Even without any 'big' accomplishments yet to your name, you are enough." 

"Whatever path you choose, whatever career you decide to go afer, the important thing is that you keep finding joy in what you're doing, especially when the joy isn't find you"

              In conclusion, don't worry about it. You already have the most. And you're already one of the best 

 Graham writes from experience which I find fascinating because each word draws me in. This book is more than just a story, it's a guide for me & I absolutely recommend it!